{"id":1023,"date":"2011-03-29T11:10:47","date_gmt":"2011-03-29T18:10:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/backattheranchwithpaula.com\/coffee\/?p=1023"},"modified":"2011-03-29T11:10:47","modified_gmt":"2011-03-29T18:10:47","slug":"on-the-first-day-of-christmas-12-drummers-drumming","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.backattheranchwithpaula.com\/coffee\/2011\/03\/on-the-first-day-of-christmas-12-drummers-drumming\/","title":{"rendered":"On the first day of Christmas….12 drummers drumming…"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Eagle's Nest, NM. Rural America, maybe everywhere, seems to have a high tolerance for alcohol well into older age. I've never thought the happy time was the "8 till" but more when one is winding up singin' the blues.<\/p><\/div>\n

Mostly about 12 drummers drumming….they work. \u00a0For any chemical use or personality flaws such as being annoying, self-centered, narcicisstic, ADD, for having melt-downs at Best Buy, and in general for any defect of character that involves giving up control to a higher power. It’s my personal opinion that everyone could benefit from practice, regardless of habits, and hit a meeting now and then.<\/p>\n

I am powerless over…
\nmy computer
\nmy iphone apps and ipod in the case of the challenged
\ntalking about the digital world
\nmy pleasure in my own humor
\ntalking
\ndesire to use the restroom in completely inappropriate situations like church, inherited from my father<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Here is a good one from today on Humility:<\/em><\/p>\n

“A bully ain’t have too much patience to read or write too much…
\nhow to understand things…(s)he’s just mouthy.”
\n-Sharon<\/p>\n

“I just go to hear the stories.” \u00a0-Bob.<\/p>\n

Bob is a well-dressed Cowboy in Delano who was hangin’ at the hood in the Seneca McDonald’s. \u00a0When I was looking for some contract labor to put labels and stamps on my backattheranch.com Valentine mailer, he was on the way out for a smoke and said,”wait on me, I’ll come back here and hit on you”, lucky girl that I am.<\/p>\n

Bob remembered me from photographing Barry a while back, so here’s a clip of Barry from November speaking on the need for 24-7 shelters.<\/p>\n

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I cut out the end where I lost him on the concept of the portable houses from architecture school at Marvin Hall. A ridiculous idea in hindsight, there weren’t too many homeless backgrounds in the student pool at KU to give a first hand account. Carrying a house around on your back I can imagine sounds ludicrous and backwards, heavier than a mortgage around your neck when you’re out in the field.<\/p>\n

Apparently Barry had just had a heart attack a few days prior in McDonald’s, right in the corner where I’d taken his picture and he was in the hospital. \u00a0 Bob and I shared a cry and a laugh for Barry, as he noted that management “was maaad” and took Barry aside after he got out of the hospital, “you pull any of that $h!t in here again and you’re not coming back.” They welcome the cowboys, but that kind of advertising can’t be good for the quarter-# angus sales, which are delicious with swiss and mushrooms I might add.\u00a0I know Barry was very ill and I fear has passed, bless Barry.<\/p>\n

And, back to Bob. \u00a0He lives with his brother who’s wife, a lesbian, left him long ago. \u00a0He sleeps at the Shelter down the road by where I used to work at SJCF Architecture on the nights when he’s on the sauce since his brother and new wife don’t allow alcohol in their house. A painter by trade, Bob is from a military family with both of Bob’s brothers having done tours in Iraq, one now flying fighter planes in the desert.<\/p>\n

In our discussion of drugs and alcohol and 12 drummer meetings, he \u00a0also mentioned that the military was big on pharmaceuticals for those 72 hour flight missions. \u00a0Anyway, it was cold, so I gave him a ride from McDonald’s to the Mission, always big on safety telling the night manager before I left that if I ended up dead in the Wichita papers tomorrow, get Bob.<\/p>\n

My parting words were,\u00a0“Bob, you’ve got to cut out the drinking to get the women, you’ve asked me my name 3x in the last 10 minutes.” And Bob’s last words were, “I think I’ll go to a meeting tomorrow.” So, one of the best things about 12 drummers is passing it along, even before you know much.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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