{"id":605,"date":"2010-12-29T01:05:55","date_gmt":"2010-12-29T08:05:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/backattheranchwithpaula.com\/coffee\/?p=605"},"modified":"2010-12-29T01:05:55","modified_gmt":"2010-12-29T08:05:55","slug":"a-for-effort-pete","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.backattheranchwithpaula.com\/coffee\/2010\/12\/a-for-effort-pete\/","title":{"rendered":"A for effort Pete."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve never been very good in the training department on ordering up gifts for others to give to me on certain occasions, too much pressure for everyone. I&#8217;m tickled with any random thought, dark dove bites, other and I&#8217;ve received some nice ones. In going through my scrapbooks where (my mother or I?) stashed every memory jogging thing, I came across a very beautiful keepsake that is history, time, place, and art.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_606\" style=\"width: 226px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-606\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-606\" title=\"Scan\" src=\"https:\/\/backattheranchwithpaula.com\/coffee\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/12\/Scan7-216x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"216\" height=\"300\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-606\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Philmont Scout Ranch, Cimarron New Mexico<\/p><\/div>\n<p>I had to give you a taste first. It is a letter from Pete Stack to Paula Graves after her return from cheerleading camp \u00a0while he was at Philmont Scout Ranch in Cimarron, New Mexico. \u00a0&#8220;I want you to know that I normally don&#8217;t write on shirts for letters!! \u00a0But I thought it would be a little different. Do you like the little bull? I found the shirt in the little boy&#8217;s section.&#8221; \u00a0I had just passed through Cimarron a few weeks ago and came home to find this work of art and the bull brought it home.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_607\" style=\"width: 218px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-607\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-607\" title=\"Scan\" src=\"https:\/\/backattheranchwithpaula.com\/coffee\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/12\/Scan8-208x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"208\" height=\"300\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-607\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Pete Stack in Master Scout Uniform<\/p><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>This was probably summer &#8217;77. There are a few excerpts for history&#8217;s sake below, but he asks, &#8220;so how does your dating life go these days?&#8221; so it was well into a later friendship stage. \u00a0Here are a few noteworthy repeats:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>I talked to Dave (Nixon) last night for about an hour but it was worth it. It was great to talk to him! He said he had a great time in the Carribean&#8221; (I&#8217;m sure with Liz hosted by Jack Frost at Petit St. Vincent rubbing elbows with Princess Margaret and George Plimpton, good gig).<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;He was going to send a bottle to make me sane.&#8221; (Guess they didn&#8217;t allow liquor at camp, even for the counselors?)<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;Hope sometime you call!&#8221; \u00a0(very lonely and ready to go home)<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;I made a belt the other day! It was macrame and leather. (see <em>macrame) <\/em>&#8230;..I made a pot holder! Neat huh!&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>(<em>I&#8217;m<\/em> not putting in all these exclamation points).<\/li>\n<li>a weird thing from his neighborhood that I won&#8217;t mention.<\/li>\n<li>side two: he&#8217;s wearing down, telling my parents and dog, Dooley hello&#8230;.&#8221;I&#8217;m messing up this shirt. You know I got it small so you can&#8217;t wear it.&#8221; Not then, but after nursing two children, it&#8217;s perfect, see below. \u00a0I think he&#8217;s realizing how much time he&#8217;s invested and how cool it is, regrets buying the boys S (10-12), maybe wants to keep it.<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;I (&#8216;m) running out of things to say but I can bore you somehow. You like my artistry? What a joke!&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>Strong finish &#8220;the mail just came&#8221; and then these incredibly detailed drawings. And, &#8220;P.S. Tell Marthe hello for me! Also happy cheering!&#8221;\n<div id=\"attachment_609\" style=\"width: 235px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-609\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-609\" title=\"IMG00219-20101229-0120\" src=\"https:\/\/backattheranchwithpaula.com\/coffee\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/12\/IMG00219-20101229-0120-e1293607662604-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-609\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Drawing: Mountain range, Philmont Rocky Mountain Scout Camp patch, Pete&#39;s cabin, small drawing of Prairie Village kiddie pool.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>So, I tried on shirt and it fits great. I was taking a break and dancing when John came home after 5 days in Turkey, Texas where he was hunting. The man works all the time, so this was uncommon and I was very proud of him. \u00a0We danced a little, then I \u00a0took advantage of his 5 days away with me alone in country (loved it) and wanted closure so enlisted his help in capturing the right pose but needed the mirror to get my body right.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div id=\"attachment_611\" style=\"width: 460px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-611\" class=\"size-large wp-image-611\" title=\"IMG00155-20101219-1404\" src=\"https:\/\/backattheranchwithpaula.com\/coffee\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/12\/IMG00155-20101219-1404-450x600.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"600\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-611\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">John&#39;s photographic skill.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>This took 5 minutes so quite a bit of effort and diversion from unpacking his bags which I totally relate to when returning home. And here&#8217;s the best part.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>&#8220;That&#8217;s really a cute shirt,&#8221;said John, concentrating on the task: getting this great picture for me, of me, my ex-boyfriend, and my husband. That&#8217;s it. So Pete, I just took full artistic credit for your creativity and cleverness. So anyone?, don&#8217;t say anything when I wear it to the next reunion if John comes. Too fun.<\/li>\n<li>And Pete, it really was a beautiful and thoughtful gift. Thank you.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve never been very good in the training department on ordering up gifts for others to give to me on certain occasions, too much pressure for everyone. I&#8217;m tickled with any random thought, dark dove bites, other and I&#8217;ve received some nice ones. 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